Tom wants an older Lady

I get a lot of messages from Facebook -sadly far too many to read all of them or to reply to. I do check them and if the title is interesting or the little content preview FB gives you is interesting the chances are I will read it and reply. I do try to reply to as many messages as possible just I do get the odd random abusive one which is deleted with the person added to my banned list. Simply writing 'Hi' or 'I wanna sex u' is not going to command much of a reply. I have replied to most people who just write saying 'Hi' though the volume and frequency is becoming too much.

One mail I did reply to came from Tom Cunningham. Now he broke all the rules. He is a man on facebook without a picture (really even a sunset is more interesting to reply to than the FB question mark). He also didn't write anything in the subject. Tom - apologies, I am not having a go - I did read your mail and as promised will share it here to see if anyone is interested .

Firstly Tom tells me he is an 18 year old man. His profile on facebook is here http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1039473319

He wrote to me not about me but asking for help. Well, I thought it seemed a fairly genuine message so here it is

"hey lucy, u seem pretty well established here on facebook and Im new, I wondered if u knew any sexy older ladies i could chat to"

My interest was piqued. I am a 22 year old girl, he was practically asking to go on a date with my aged aunt or grandmothers. I also get a lot of attention & this was not about me !

After I asked him what is 'older' or what he wanted ?

"looking around the 40s and 50s, anywhere in the south. thanks a lot xxx"

So, there you have it. If you are a Lady in the south of England, in her 40's or 50's, looking for a toyboy, maybe Tom is your man ? I do not know Tom, I have never spoken to him apart from a random message on FB. I am not giving Tom my seal of approval and I am not setting up as a matchmaker, just these brief few lines I found of interest - and thought you guys might too.

Just a note - please anyone looking to meet people off the internet or anywhere - do a lot of research, meet after you trust the person after a long period of emails, msn, telephone or webcam. Make sure you have proof of who the person is. If you are meeting someone make sure other people know where you are going and what you are doing. Meet in a public open place. Just be safe xxxx

If anyone else has any advice for random meets, please post here or get in contact and I will update it

Love, Lucy
xxxx

Facebook - isn't it fabulous ?

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I have just done my morning accepting of friends on www.facebook.com - I have 2300 today - its a crazy fun place though I am really struggling to keep up with the messages - I typically get 40+ messages overnight which is impossible to reply to every one as the system is quite slow

Anyway, hope every one is having a nice day and speak to you later

love

Lucy xxxx

I waste sooo much time on facebook though still love it

Are you on Facebook ? If so - add me as a friend here http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1031332519 - I only recently signed up and have been absolutely overwhelmed with the amount of people that are a.) members and b.) messaging me or adding me as a friend ... I am truely flattered and geniunly love the mainly positive messages and emails that have come from having a profile there. As I write this I have 43 friend requests in addition to the 150 odd I added this morning. I have found that a lot of the messages are to do with wanting to spank and beat my ass - happilly from both girls and boys so hopefully I will be in for a lot of fun if the right spark can be found. If you have visited my blog from facebook - say hi - leave me a comment as it would be great to know what commentary people will expect going forward and help me mould this blog in the way it deserves to be - the way expected by any readers xxxx