Saturday, 19 January 2008

A hangover leads to an awesome spanking

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Wednesday, 16 January 2008

Ask Lucy what you want to See

Firstly, apologies for the delay in updating the blog it has been quite busy in my little corner of the world. I would like to make this blog a little more interactive

So.

What would you like to see or hear ? More stories, guest posts from some of my friends (male and female) ? Pictures (what of) . Feel free to send me your stories and pictures

More Facebook interactivity - a group on facebook perhaps ?

More regular themes - like who I want to spank me ?

I have some friends in the webworld - would a proper web forum be of interest to talk confidentially and intimately ?

Please, do contact me and leave a message on this blog. You can leave comments here and link back toyour website, your blog, your facebook profile or nothing at all

So - please leave me feedback and comments. The more comments the more I will post.

Tell me what you want & I will try and give it to you !

Speak up and leave me some feedback, comments and love !

Love

Lucy xxxx

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Saturday, 12 January 2008

Lucy Liu - I want you to spank me

Now, I am starting to get back on track. Back to me. And another Lucy.

Lucy Lui a fine and sexy Hollywood actress

I remember her as Ling in the Ally McBeal series. In the more recent Charlies Angels films. Not forgetting 'Kill Bill' She does appear to have a feisty, naughty, dominant persona - well her characters do anyway. Her hobbies are listed as rock climbing, skiing and horseback riding. Fabulous.

Lucy Lui - I imagine her wearing a dark / black trouser suit with a long full length over coat. Some kick-ass heels underneath. Large black full rimmed sunglasses and her hair straight and hanging. A (faux) fur trimmed hat and black leather gloves would finish off her outfit.

She may even start by kicking my butt !

What would she use to beat me? Anything lying around. I think a gloved hand to start, and then use the gloves to whack me. Then her bare hands.

Lucy Lui, I would love you to spank me

Love,

Lucy Fanshaw
xxxx

If anyone has an idea for a spanker, please do let me know

Time for Lucy to take a break from blogging, for a few hours

p.s. update - lets not forget the Lucy Lui Ally McBeal kissing scene

Tom wants an older Lady

I get a lot of messages from Facebook -sadly far too many to read all of them or to reply to. I do check them and if the title is interesting or the little content preview FB gives you is interesting the chances are I will read it and reply. I do try to reply to as many messages as possible just I do get the odd random abusive one which is deleted with the person added to my banned list. Simply writing 'Hi' or 'I wanna sex u' is not going to command much of a reply. I have replied to most people who just write saying 'Hi' though the volume and frequency is becoming too much.

One mail I did reply to came from Tom Cunningham. Now he broke all the rules. He is a man on facebook without a picture (really even a sunset is more interesting to reply to than the FB question mark). He also didn't write anything in the subject. Tom - apologies, I am not having a go - I did read your mail and as promised will share it here to see if anyone is interested .

Firstly Tom tells me he is an 18 year old man. His profile on facebook is here http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1039473319

He wrote to me not about me but asking for help. Well, I thought it seemed a fairly genuine message so here it is

"hey lucy, u seem pretty well established here on facebook and Im new, I wondered if u knew any sexy older ladies i could chat to"

My interest was piqued. I am a 22 year old girl, he was practically asking to go on a date with my aged aunt or grandmothers. I also get a lot of attention & this was not about me !

After I asked him what is 'older' or what he wanted ?

"looking around the 40s and 50s, anywhere in the south. thanks a lot xxx"

So, there you have it. If you are a Lady in the south of England, in her 40's or 50's, looking for a toyboy, maybe Tom is your man ? I do not know Tom, I have never spoken to him apart from a random message on FB. I am not giving Tom my seal of approval and I am not setting up as a matchmaker, just these brief few lines I found of interest - and thought you guys might too.

Just a note - please anyone looking to meet people off the internet or anywhere - do a lot of research, meet after you trust the person after a long period of emails, msn, telephone or webcam. Make sure you have proof of who the person is. If you are meeting someone make sure other people know where you are going and what you are doing. Meet in a public open place. Just be safe xxxx

If anyone else has any advice for random meets, please post here or get in contact and I will update it

Love, Lucy
xxxx

Why buying Coffee can get you spanked



Well, I did say I wanted a decent cup of coffee didn't I ? Fabulous advert, no husband here to beat me though maybe someone at the local coffee shop might oblige?

Sorry, I am lost for words, the picture speaks for itself

Love

Lucy xxxx

Lucy thinks she really needs to get a coffee now ...

Ladies, Do you submit to your man ?

A very kind soul sent me a message yesterday. Thank you 'P' for this - if you want me to take your email off or publish your full name, link to you, let me know - though I will preserve your anonimity until you say otherwise

Now 'P' wrote to me out the blue, we don't know each other at all and I rather enjoyed what he wrote to me.

"Hi Lucy,I very much enjoyed coming across your blog ... You are a very naughty girl indeed! I have to admit to a great penchant forspanking naughty girls' bare bottoms. Over the years, I've always enjoyed lecturing girlfriends on any misbehavior, taking their knickers down (I prefer Agent Provocateur), and give them a good old fashioned spanking with my hand, the belt, the riding crop or the cane. I personally think the best way to spend a saturday afternoon is to be out in town with a pretty, funny, and naughty girl, having lunch, shopping, seeingexhibitions, etc. in the firm knowledge that, once home, I can put her in the corner, lecture her, and thrash her bottom.I thought you'd enjoy the attached article from the Sunday Times. I'd be interested in your thoughts. "

Yes 'P' I agree - as I wrote back to you the idea of going out, shopping then a fabulous lunch, the preparation before, the light giggles during, in the knowledge a capable lad would then spank me is a beautiful notion. I actually did pause in the evening and think out the scenario, imagined where I'd go, even a few candidates that I'd like to be at lunch with before they layed their hands on my ready behind.

The outfit I was in two minds about, though in the end I was imagining it to be a late lunch in the summer, a floaty dress, smart flats or even flip flops (amazing spanking tools) (*amazing*), sunglasses and very little else ? What do you think ?

Well, for those of you that would like to read it I enclose the Sunday Times article here that 'P' sent to me, if anyone can find the link for this story I will hapilly link to it intead

THE SUNDAY TIMES
Hanky spanky
WILLIAM GEORGIADES
FEATURES

Introducing a little discipline doesn't do anyone any harm-especially when it involves grown women, says William Georgiades.
Women should be struck regularly, like gongs," suggested Noel Coward, not the straightest arrow that ever flew.
Le vice anglais is not the sexiest phrase, conjuring as it doesimages of doughy, middle-aged MPs being caned by unconvincinglatex-clad girls from Essex. Much more adorable is the idea of arosy-bottomed harlot squealing in gleeful discomfort over agentleman's lap, her legs kicking and her whole demeanour fairlysaying: "Stop this at once. But not just yet.
"We've had postfeminism, do-me-feminism and now, my personal favourite, beat-me feminism.

I once knew an American woman who liked to be taken to the woods, fastened just so to a tree, then beaten rather fiercely with a riding crop before being ravished. I asked where the notion to be treated thus came from, imagining all forms of gruesome coming-of-age tales, and she mentioned the salient image of Catherine Deneuve in Bunuel's Belle de jour. She looked so beautiful,my friend said, and I wanted to feel that beautiful. As I recall, she did.

In 1979, Sweden instituted the first ban on smacking its children,which, looking at Sweden, explains quite a lot. As if children werenot annoying enough, Britain is now joining this coalition for thepreservation of consequence-free childhoods, which means that forevery smacking that should have occurred, the relevant child, whenadult, will plaintively turn to their other half and say, just likeall 25-year-old Swedes: "Spank me."

There is a general belief that those who were beaten properly as children grow up with an acquired taste for smacking. This tends notto be the case in practice. I grew up in England in the 1970s, wherea day of education was not complete without some impressive form of violence. Whatever romantic notions may exist are quickly excisedwhen your eight-year-old bottom is hit six times with a cane.

At 12, I made a deeply unfortunate move to suburban America, where the same behaviour that would be cause for a beating here sent me toa psychiatrist's office. America is an oddly flabby country, whereall sports that involve interaction come equipped with helmets andpads, and childish infractions are seen as "issues" that require"help". This "help" invariably comes in the form of friends for pay,otherwise known as psychiatry; and, sadly, psychiatry has not yetevolved to incorporate corporal punishment. The immediate result wasthat my bad behaviour only increased, while the long-term effects of American psychiatry were far more damaging than the momentary pain ofwhat is, after all, a normal punishment.

So, the bottoms of America's adult population tend to be more usedto a psychiatrist's couch than the sting of a cane.And, as these young women and men grow up, they realise that they missed something rather crucial: the virtue, not vice, known as discipline.

There is a fine line between abuse and sexy play. And, of course, it hurts to be whacked. Yet nothing is more ladylike than submitting properly to the gentleman you have chosen to be with. The man who smacks his lady lovingly is unlikely ever to abuse her in anunwelcome or illegal way. And, technically, it doesn't hurt if you're spanked properly; rather, the rush of blood to those vital areas creates a sensation that is something very different from stubbing your toe or banging your elbow.

There are other matters at hand. Women have become obsessed with their bottoms, finding ever more inventive ways to show them off.There are only a couple of things a man can reasonably be expected todo to a bottom. Four, to be precise.
Of which smacking is the most sanitary, aesthetically pleasing andgenerally sensible.

The best smackees I've found are American women, who tend to berelatively prim and proper. Show me a woman clanging with bodypiercings and wearing a schoolgirl outfit, and I'll show you a home counties mum treading water until she snares someone equally dreary.

One who can be presented in society tends to be that much more interesting. Or, as a good friend of mine mentioned to me recently,all nice girls like smacking.
So, as men get older and have less patience for more elaborate coquettishness, the most efficient way to determine a young woman's suitability for marriage, children and companionship is to put herover your knee at the slightest suggestion of difficulty, pull up the dramatic Alexander McQueen you have just bought her (her willingnessto wear a McQueen creation is itself a dead giveaway), pull down the Coco de Mer knickers and have at it.
If she kicks her heels andsqueals delightedly, she's a keeper. If she objects and cites feminist theory, you've just saved yourself years of misery.Perverts are forever going on about how their particular interest is really the most freeing, marvellous thing, and how, if everyone wore rubber and attached clothes pins to their delicate bits, the worldwould be a happier place.

But a smacked bum isn't elaborate or a perversion, or even out of the ordinary. It's one of the most naturalthings to do in the world (especially when a woman is beingannoying). The perverse is not smacking the needy.And so, this nation can now look forward to a whole generationgrowing up with issues that can only be solved over a knee. Spare therod and spoil the country. On the upside, there won't be a girl in England who isn't gagging for it.

/Ends

Well, hope that made happy reading. Right now, I am thinking, today is Saturday, I don't have a lunch date (yet), I would love to act out 'P''s scenario - lets see what happens

Love

Lucy
xxxx

Lucy is thinking it is time to go and get a decent cup of coffee

Friday, 11 January 2008

I want these people to spank me !!

I thought it would be fun as well as talking about some of my exploits, to mention people I would like to spank me, or I would like to spank. Hopefully this can be an occasional column or piece that may get interesting over time. (note to anyone mentioned in this - this is just my fansasy, I am not claiming any liaison and it is meant as a compliment as being spanked and spanking turns me on - if you are offended, please get in touch)

I don't generally fantasise about spanking other people very often and it is more often other girls. This makes my first candidate more surprising.

Philip Seymour Hoffman, I would like to spank you
biog link http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000450/

PSH - as I will now refer to you as - you were great in 'The Talented Mr Ripley', you won an oscar for 'Capote' and now have two cinema releases out - both of which look set to be superb. I think you would be a prime candidate for being beaten and spanked. I see you wearing a white t-shirt and white boxer shorts as I whallop your behind with a wooden spoon, just for being such a damned fine actor.

Now, slightly more on topic and who I want to be beaten by.
She is a singer in the great pop group Girls Aloud http://www.girlsaloud.co.uk/site.php
Often the celebrity gossip magasines picture her having fun, out and about the town
She is the current face and body for 'ultimo' underwear

Sarah Harding, I would like you to spank me, please
link to fansite http://www.missharding.com/

She is the sexiest and seems the most fun of the Girls Aloud band. I can imagine her, in a skintight, black, all in one pvc cat suit, with a zip at the front undone to her navel. She would be wearing some unbelievable heels and her hair could be tied up with some serious eye-liner. She could beat me with whatever she chose though for this image I have her with a stiff leather spanking paddle, with two slits at the end, to make some more interesting marks, better sounds, and a more convincing thwack. Oh yeah, the sting might turn me on a little more ....

I think it would be best for me to be wearing a school girls outfit for this scenario. A white blouse (top few buttons undone) , a cheekily tiny pleated kilt, little white cotton panties, white socks up to just below my knees, a pair of converse all star trainers (sneakers) and my hair in bunches. I may be rewarded with a lolly pop to suck at the end. To be spanked, my skirt would have to be hitched over my back.

A little stereotypical, I know, though very naughty and I love it .....x

If anyone has any suggestions for a spanker or to be spanked, please do contact me or leave a comment on this blog ...lets see who is the most spankable or best spanker really is ? Please do let me know any suggestions ....

Love

Lucy
xxxx

Lucy hopes Sarah Harding has some modelling pics done in the naughty outfit I suggested ..

Stunning girl on the tube this morning

So, after my situation yesterday where I almost embarrassed my self horribly, I went out to dinner with some friends. It was just a good evening of good food, a lot of wine and a moderatly late finish of around 1am. I don't feel too bad though I drank lots of water ! I also behaved and got a cab home and went to bed by myself - although I was just a little horny and would have quite liked to have joined my host and hostess in their bed (It has happened before) .

Anyway - I was very tired and had an early start so after getting ready for bed it was a few minutes of clitty fun with my electric toothbrush, a quite wonderful climax and straight to sleep ! See how simple us girls really can be if you treat us well ? (I have yet to meet a toy that compares to my electric toothbrush - recomendations are welcome)

So, I got up early this morning and I put on one of my favourite things to wear - dark blue denim inside black boots - I just feel 25% sexier putting the boots on and walking in them one feels sooo much more confident.

I got on the tube (London metro system) and about 5 minutes later I caught the eye of this lovely, lovely girl - she was just my type of lass. Blonde hair, dark black tights (hose) and a short denim skirt, with an overcoat that was short, above the knee - though longer than the skirt. This was soo sexy as I imagined at one stage that she wasn't wearing a skirt at all - maybe she forgot - maybe she is teasing me - though the skirt was breathtaking in its shortness. I looked at her and she caught me and gave me a smile which I quickly turned my head (yeah - I know - I am silly)

I turned back to see her and she smiled again - I also noticed a ring on her left hand - an engagement ring - so she was probably just being girly with me and smiling at my outfit as I admired hers. She got off the tube at the next stop and did turn back and smile at me - I was now grinning from ear to ear - such a lovely girl and I just *know* she would love to spank me. I really wish I'd spoken to her - maybe I'll see her again in the morning - maybe it is her usual route.

I am still grinning about her now and thinking about her naughty outfit. Oh well, maybe next time

love

Lucy
xxxx

Lucy Fanshaw : is loving everyone reading this xx

Facebook - isn't it fabulous ?

cartoon from www.weblogcartoons.com

Cartoon by Dave Walker. Find more cartoons you can freely re-use on your blog at We Blog Cartoons.

This cartoon amused me quite a lot - so thanks to Dave Walker who drew it and allows people to use them on their blogs
I have just done my morning accepting of friends on www.facebook.com - I have 2300 today - its a crazy fun place though I am really struggling to keep up with the messages - I typically get 40+ messages overnight which is impossible to reply to every one as the system is quite slow


Anyway, hope every one is having a nice day and speak to you later

love

Lucy xxxx

Thursday, 10 January 2008

How I almost embarrassed myself on the tube

This was one of those almost naughty situations. I had to use the tube today (ugggh) the tube is what the London underground train network is referred to - our metro if you like. Well today in London was a little rainy and for some reason it is always more crowded when busy - maybe its the brollys - I dunno.

Cleverly I had chosen to get on the tube at rushhour so the train was unbearably full - then as the carriage doors were shutting someone jumped on the train squashing us even more (and there really was very little space).

So the train is moving and it is very busy and I occasionally like the rumblings of the tube - when it is emptier. Anyway - the tube was busy to the point where the person directly in front of me was almost leaning back on me, causing me to lean back and directly behind me was a man.

Now when my back made contact with him I slowly realised that - OMG he had (through his trousers) an erect penis being stuck into my back. I was getting a little annoyed at this - I had noticed him and not my type at all - I have had some interesting tube journeys with guys I liked in this situation and I have enjoyed it - a little - and so has he ....

So I am getting worked up, just getting ready to say something to him, loudly so to embarass him into shame and moving away when I realised men don't normally have penis's on their belly ..(well not the ones I have met). I must be a little over tired or diva -esque today as we got to the next stop I saw the article 'penetrating' me.

The poor boy just had one of those rucksacks that couriers sometimes use with a 'sash' strap and on that was a mobile pocket which had something hard (a mobile phone maybe ?) . Thank the Lord I wasn't my usual impulsive self - I would have completely embarassed myself shouting 'please remove your penis from my back' loudly on that packed train !

Well, not a horny story, though maybe a lesson for me there

I now have to go out to eat - at some friends flat - and I have history with the couple who live there, though I don't think anything will happen tonight .... or will it ?

L xxxx

FAQ - What does Lucy Fanshaw like to do that is naughty?

I frequently get asked what I like so thought it would be a lot easier to write up a blog post with some of my preferences. All these posts will be tagged 'FAQ' so in the future when there is more content all you will need to do is search for 'FAQ' and you will get a list of them .. more of that later

So. I like girls. I like boys. I like girls and boys

I like being spanked, beaten, whalloped and told what a bad, naughty girl I have been. I occasionally like to dish out the spanking. I also like to spank myself

It is many things. I like the sensation. I like a little bit of pain. The sound of the 'whack' turns me on. The 'whoosh' of something making a sound in the air (like a whip) is the same.

This is all something what I like to do in a place of trust, with people I know I can trust.

I will elaborate later - and will write up part 2 of 4 girls go to dinner

much love

Lucy

mwah xxxx

Lucy Fanshaw says relax !

Sunday, 6 January 2008

Four Girls go to a restaurant for dinner - what could go wrong ?

Well, it was looking like a nice Saturday evening .. after a day of nothing very much - brekky, my laptop, tea and juice (and perhaps a little bit of stroking myself)I met up with three girlfriends for some dindins to be followed by a late night bar. It all seemed fairly harmless. Before I went out I had a bath (I luurve to have a soak) and took some time to get ready. There is something about being naked, warm and soapy which if my poor dirty mind is allowed to wander for more than 7 seconds I start to feel just ever so slightly horny. Inevitably the middle digit of my right hand wandered down towards my (now freshly shaven) pussy. (I like to keep it trim and shave it several times a week.

Sometimes I need a lot to climax. I need to be warm (most of the time ;) ) - generally being relaxed helps a lot. Well in this lovely soapy warm water in my candle lit bathroom, aided with a glass of wine (Kiwi Sav Blanc if you care) I came in less than 4 minutes. Well, I had been building up to it - I had had a lot of very naughty messages on facebook, email (and other mediums) so my hormonal self had had a whole day of virtual foreplay - luckily I live in a solidly built place so I can relax and not worry about alerting the neighbours to what I am up to (I am not really that loud (I think -eeek I hope - well I have screemed the place down though that is not an everyday occurance) though it does help in the feeling relaxed. Fear not - I am not a prude - If I want voyeurs or to let people know I am being bad - they will know !

Clean, fresh and starting to get in the mood for going out I poured myself another glass of wine and turned on some music. I know it is in the charts and radio the whole time but I just love the Mark Ronson / Amy Winehouse version of the Zutons 'Valerie'. As most bad singers like myself, I grabbed my hairbrush to sing into - whilst I wiggled and attempted in my towel to boogie to the tune. Well, dancing can be a release and it can be a turn on, right now, with a warmed up body, clean n preened, supple from the soak it was both. As the song came to the end I switched tack and started to beat myself ever so gently on my right buttock with the flat side, holding the brush in my right hand. My towel which I had hitched up above my waist to allow this had come undone and I had adopted a jockey position beating myself like a horse in the middle of a race - just starting to get some tempo out of the beast .... (to be continued later )xx

Saturday, 5 January 2008

Hanky Panky - don't you love a good spanky ?

Now I have allways loved this Madonna song 'Hanky Panky' - for more reasons than just the title - it is genuinly funny though also very true - for me anyway .

Enjoy .....



p.s. I appreciate the quality isn't the best - this is an embedded clip from youtube.com if anyone knows a better one please do tell me and I will try and post it up here ...x

p.p.s. Does anyone *not* like this song ? (For me -it cheers me up everytime)

I waste sooo much time on facebook though still love it

Are you on Facebook ? If so - add me as a friend here http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1031332519 - I only recently signed up and have been absolutely overwhelmed with the amount of people that are a.) members and b.) messaging me or adding me as a friend ... I am truely flattered and geniunly love the mainly positive messages and emails that have come from having a profile there. As I write this I have 43 friend requests in addition to the 150 odd I added this morning. I have found that a lot of the messages are to do with wanting to spank and beat my ass - happilly from both girls and boys so hopefully I will be in for a lot of fun if the right spark can be found. If you have visited my blog from facebook - say hi - leave me a comment as it would be great to know what commentary people will expect going forward and help me mould this blog in the way it deserves to be - the way expected by any readers xxxx

Every good girl likes a gentle beating, don't they?

I think the only way to get this party started is to launch straight in. I like spanking. Correction, I love to be spanked and in different ways and places. I would not consider myself into BDSM / bondage or any of those sub genres though I wouldn't be offended if I was considered part of the fold. I am not an expert on spanking, just what I enjoy.

I love my buttocks being beaten. I really enjoy them being spanked hard when I am wearing jeans as the sound can be as exciting as the sensation. When I have just had a bath, my body is supple and warm - that is also a time when I particularily get excited.

Public 'tapping' is also very excited, when I am in a shop or bar and I get a gentle whallop on my buttocks, this eggs me on though also generates the desired response to get me moving - sometimes straight to bed ...xx

I really enjoy being beaten by other girls and have rarely found one that doesn't enjoy it a little - any ladies out there want to tell me I am wrong? (please do tell me if you don't like being spankedx)

As I experience any real life situations over the next day or so when I am out and about I will share them with you - in the meantime please tell me anything you like or want to hear xx

I hope this is worthwhile !!

My first thoughts are - is this going to be worthwhile? Will anybody read this ? What would a readership want ? Well, if you have landed on my site and want to tell me something, ask me something or want something, please let me know ...... xxxx

My First Post

I have written this blog out of demand from being bombarded with mails and requests on other sites, so hopefully this will be an interesting resource and journal for those who wish to know more about me ...... please bear with me in getting some quality content and pictures up with proper about me information - though hopefully this is a small but ambitious start to my life on and off line ! xx

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love

Lucy
xxxx


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